Family ID: 2571187

Children: 1 Children, 1 - 5 years old

City: BAILLARGUES / Suburb | More ⇩

Name Dongyue

State Occitanie

Postal code Only Premium members

Job Start: Sep 2024 - Sep 2024

Time of stay: 3-24 Months

Last action: 22 Feb 2024

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Welcome Letter to the Au Pair

*We found the candidate right now*

I decided to write everything here.

I started to look for an au pair at the end of May. I do need someone to come here so I took it seriously. I run four companies in China so I treat all my potential au pairs as my customers. I wrote to them nicely, I answered them nicely in a formal way. But it did not go smoothely at all.

I tried to reach out roughly 300 au pairs, most of them did not reply me. At this stage I can totally understand I think just because they dont like my profile. So its totally ok they just ignore my messages.

After that, some of them replied me, and said we can do a video call, then I told them my whatsapp number, then they just disappeared all of sudden. Some of them sent me an Email, and I told them my whatsapp, then they just disappeared all of sudden. This is extremely common, and I really dont know why at this stage. I mean they said they are interetsed, but then they disappear, why?

If everything goes well, we built up connection on whatsapp. Weird things happened again. They said hello to me, I said hello to them, we texted several times then we scheduled a video call. Some of them just missed the video call. Our family sat in front the camera just wait for these aupairs, but they never answer????

Alright, if they did answer the call, then I would say all of them are very nice. Yea, definitely, all the ppl in video call are nice. We chated for a while. Then we ended the call. Some of them would ghost again. But I would understand at this stage, maybe they just dont like us. They dont like us then disappear all of sudden without any messages.

Right now, by a roughly counting, I sent 300 messages to au pairs, I interviewed no more than 20 au pairs. Only 3 of 20 gave me a confirmative answer they wont come. All of the other just disappeared without leaving any messages. Like a ghost suddenly disppear.

After two months searching, I did not find anyone who can come. We provide enough money (16 hours, at least 500 600 euros, maximun 1200 euros, isn't it enough?), we provide a big bed room. I cannot quite understand why.
I finally gradually accept that I may end up finding no one who is willing to come here. So I decided to write down what happend to me these two months.

At the end, I still give a glimmer of hope to find a reliable au pair here. I hope next time when I talk with an aupair, these ghosting disappearing wont happen again.
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Job Description

You need to spend 16 hours per week playing with our kid these days. In these hours, you need to fully focus on our daughter, play with her, talk with her.

If you come from UK. You can come here to have a trial period like 5 days. We pay for the flight from France to UK.

Pocket money can be increased depending on performance. We can pay 600-750 euros.
If you think you can commit, I can pay more. Up to 1200 euros.
So if you want a fat payment, just let me know you are the right person for us.
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Family Information

Family has pets No

Family lives in Suburb

Parent's Age Group 30-45

Are you a single parent? No, our family has two parents

Nationality Chinese

Languages spoken at home English

Religion No Religion

Importance of religion Not important

Employment Manager / Entrepreneur

People living in the house 3

Children's/people's age and gender 4 Year female

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Job Requirements

Working Hours (per week) 15 - 20

Pocket Money of Au Pair (per month) 450 EUR

Salary of Nanny 1200 EUR

Required Gender Female

Duration of Stay 3-24 Months

Earliest Starting Date Sep 2024

Latest Starting Date Sep 2024

Looking for Au Pair and Nanny

Children's/People's Age 1 - 5 years old

Children/People to take care of 1

Minimum Childcare Experience No preferences

We need a tutor who can teach

How old are the students the Tutor should teach?

We need assistance and support in

Preferred Nationalities American - USA, Australian, Canadian, English, New Zealander

Language Skills
 English, Minimum Native Language

Education Level No preferences

Willing to pay/share the travel costs? yes

Required Age 16-30

Accepts Smokers Yes, not at home

Taking care of special needs children/people required No

Taking care of pets required No

Swimming required No

Riding a bike required No

The applicant can attend language courses Yes

First Aid Training required No

Driving required No

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We live in a house/vally. 100 squre meters with 3 beds rooms. These is also a garage and a big garden.

We live in this downtown/suburb/upstate/or just a town? The nearst shoping center locates 4 or 5 kilometers. It is 1.6 km far from the train station. It takes 7-10 mins by train to go to the nearst city. It takes 15- 20 mins to go the nearset beach. In our town, it has 2 supermarkets, which we can ride a bike or walk there. It has a very big supermarket 4.5km away.
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