Hi, Im a Single GAY Father. We are a decent little family in London. Here are the first two things the au pair must agree to BEFORE YOU CONTACTED ME : one is that the au pair is ok with help me with my child from Monday until Friday for 1000 u$dollars (or the equivalent in British pounds) every 4 weeks , or 500 u$dollars every 2 weeks ( I put the money in u$dollars because most countries in the world have not idea about British Pound). This is "not" the salary for a babysitting or a nanny's job ! This is an AU PAIR WEBSITE, so it is not a nannys position, it is an au pair position and 1000 u$d a months for a pocket money , cero money to spend to live in London ,free accommodation in a lovely house and food and offcourse you dont have to spend anything in toiletries, or anything, you can save 100 % of the 1000 u$ dollars every month.is very good! The person will not need to spend money on anything to live here. All the au pair's needs will be paid for by the family. And anywhere my son Edward and I go with the au pair, I will ALSO pay in full for ALL . Plus, you'll have time to study English or anything else you like to study or do. You will have a lot of free time to do what you like. Or study or sleep or go out or whatever you want (you don't need to explain what you do). The other most important thing is that Im a Gay Father , if the au pair do not like gay people I understand but this will not be the family for a person who do not accept gay people like normal people! for me is important that the au pair doesn't judge me. I am a GAY single father, I am not married , I was in a long-term relationship with a MAN before, the most important thing for me is to have people in my life and in the life of my family and my son who are " GAY FRIENDLY " people who have not problem with gays !. But the most important thing is also DISCRETION, DISCRETION about the life of the family, this is a normal family, but if you are a person who likes to talk to others about the life of my family, this is not the family for you. Remember confidentiality and discretion, definitely zero gossip "0" I lead a very simple and healthy normal lifestyle, and thank God THIS IS LONDON and being a gay father is not a problem for anyone here.