After reading the information about Au Pair
program, the pros and cons
of hosting an Au Pair, you are considering the Au Pair Program
as a child care solution for your family. We have written this seven step guide to explain you the Au Pair process in details. Below you can see a step-by-step advice that will help you become a Host Family and find a suitable Au Pair for your children. Where do you start?
1. Register at AuPair.com and create your profile for free
You can register at AuPair.com for free to find your ideal Au Pair. There are more than 600 new users registering with us every day, thus you will have many options to choose from. To stand out among other families, we recommend you to make your profile
interesting and competitive.
Fill in the information about your family, add some pictures
and even videos
to make your profile more interactive. Write your expectations for the future Au Pair and what responsibilities would you like him/her to share. If you use your mother tongue to describe your family, we recommend you not to use complicated words and elaborated structures!
2. Search for a prospective Au Pair
Once you have registered and created your profile, you can start searching for Au Pairs who match your criteria. Add Au Pairs you like to your Favourites. This way you will form a selective list of favourite users and they will also receive a notification about your interest. You can also send a free request to the best candidates. Au Pairs will be able to either accept or deny your request.
3. Become a Premium Member!
Once you have found several Au Pair profiles of your interest, become a Premium Member
. Premium Membership will give you the opportunity to write personalized emails to different Au Pairs who will be able to answer you as well. This way you will get to know each other better and exchange further contact details. Try to contact 5-10 Au Pairs per day to make the matching process more efficient.
4. Arrange a video-interview
After shortlisting the most suitable Au Pair candidates, it is really important to arrange a live video-call with them. This way you will get to know each other better and understand who will be the most suitable Au Pair for your family. Moreover, live video-talk will help you avoid possible scam cases
. Scammers are afraid to reveal their identity, thus they refuse to join video-talks.
Before the interview, think of the list of questions and topics you would like to discuss with your potential Au Pair. For instance:
Child care experience/ references
Family life/ friends
Homesickness and cultural differences
If you are fond of a certain Au Pair during the interview, you can organize another talk to discuss more specific information about accommodation
, boarding, pocket money
, specific laws/rules of your country for foreigners, insurance
, transportation and other important parts of the Au Pair program
. Read more interview tips
to arrange a more essential conversation.
Try to talk slowly and be patient as your spoken language will not be the Au Pair's mother tongue. Learning a foreign language takes time and your Au Pair will probably make a huge effort during conversation!
5. Sign the Au Pair contract and close other formalities
The Au Pair contract is a document containing the most important details of cooperation between an Au Pair and a Host Family. It can help you avoid many possible misunderstandings and problems during Au Pair stay
. You can download the template of the Au Pair contract
and modify it together with your Au Pair according to your requirements.
Premium Members gain access to the improved version of the Au Pair contract, with many additional points. After both parties sign the contract, the Host Family might need to send the original to Au Pair in case he/she needs visa
. As a Host Family you might need to submit additional documents (e.g. invitation letter
) to clear the formalities.
If you would like to help your future Au Pair with travel costs
, include this note in the Au Pair contract and establish monthly installments that will be added to the Au Pair pocket money
, but do not pay for the travel cost in advance!
6. Prepare for the Au Pair’s arrival
Once all formalities are set and your Au Pair will arrive in next few days, there are some points to take care of in advance:
Children - try to explain this situation to your children and discuss new Au Pair with them, so they get used to him/her faster.
Au Pair room - ensure the room has all required conditions and furniture to move in and live.
Contact details - exchange contact details with your Au Pair - mobile phone number, landline phone number, address, phone number of Au Pair’s parents so you can be connected in case of a delay or change of a plan.
We recommend you to prepare a working plan
so that your Au Pair will get to know what a normal day in your family looks like. This way, the Au Pair will also have a chance to plan the free time and join any course or activity that help to socialize and do something different.
7. Meet your Au Pair and enjoy your experience
Introduce your Au Pair to your family and your daily routine. It may take a few days until the Au Pair feels more comfortable and becomes more confident. Be patient and understanding, he/she is living with a different family in a different country where the language and the culture might vary.
In order to adapt to the changes faster, we recommend to discuss with your Au Pair the following terms at the very beginning of the stay:
Weekly schedule - what do you expect the Au Pair to do and when?
Rules at your home
Use of the Internet/ telephone
Language course as it is one of the requirements of the program.
Try to discuss everything in a friendly way and make your Au Pair feel comfortable enough to talk to you about anything.
We wish you a great experience!