Au Pair in Spain
Costanza, Italian
Hi everyone! My name is Costanza, I'm 21 years old, I'm Italian and I live in Milan together with my parents and my two sisters Margherita ❱❱
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Hi everyone! My name is Costanza, I'm 21 years old, I'm Italian and I live in Milan together with my parents and my two sisters Margherita and Francesca. I study political science at the University of Milan and in March last year I was selected for Erasmus at the autonomous university of Barcelona. So I thought: why not, together with Erasmus, also take advantage of it to have another experience like that of an au pair? I really wanted to get involved and have many different experiences!
So on September 21, 2022 I left Milan and arrived in Sant Cugat del Valles, a beautiful town a few train stops from Barcelona and very close to the university, to spend three months with my new Catalan family.
My family is made up of mum Montse, dad Jordi, a 4 year old brother Eric, and two little sisters: 7 year old Montse and Aina, the youngest, who turned 1 on 10th December.
The first thing I would like to say is that it was a wonderful experience, and that I really recommend it to everyone at least once in their life. I was certainly lucky enough to find a very open, kind, helpful family who made me feel at home from the first days. Together with them I discovered the Catalan culture, I learned the language, I discovered their unique traditions (which
I didn't know before coming) and their story. I met my grandparents, uncles, cousins, they took me around to explore the beautiful landscapes of Catalonia, in short they included me in everything from the first moment and always treated me like a member of the family.
Alongside all this, I also took university courses, so every morning, after taking the children to school, I took the train and went to class. My parents have always been very available, I had a lot of time to study, to be alone, to go out with friends and travel around Spain or go around Barcelona... in short, I always felt free!
Furthermore, the feeling of living abroad alone, far from home, and of being absolutely independent and self-sufficient in relation to your family, is something truly priceless, which gave me a lot of strength and happiness!
I'm in Milan right now, and as I write this little review about my experience, I must admit I'm feeling a little sad (and teary-eyed). Sadness because I know that this experience will never come back, but at the same time I know that I will remain forever tied to my Catalan family and I can't wait for them to come and visit me in Milan this summer. For the moment we send each other messages, letters, and postcards, but who knows what the future holds for us. In my heart, I know for sure that this is just goodbye.
Us estimo a tots ('I love you' in Catalan).
See you soon,
your Costy.