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Au Pair Problems & How to Solve Them

An interactive, step-by-step guide for both au pairs and host families. Pick your situation and get a clear plan to work it out.

💬 Tips for giving effective feedback

When you talk things through, listen carefully to each other and avoid monologues.

Back up your points with examples or specific situations.
Use "I" statements.
Describe what you want to address without being judgmental.
Criticise the action, not the person.
Stay objective and positive.
Mention the positives too, and give praise.

Ending the placement — the last resort Terminating the relationship should always be the last option. Give each other time to adjust to the new situation. If you can't work it out, remember the notice period stated in your au pair contract — during that time both sides can look for an alternative (a new family or a new au pair). Support each other along the way.

Content adapted and rewritten from the AuPair.com guide. Source: AuPair.com →