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By Aupair.com Team on 09 Jan 2026
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How can I become an Au Pair? - Au Pair Requirements
Do you want to become an Au Pair abroad? Check out our list of basic requirements for Au Pairs:
1. Age between 17 - 30 years old
2. Be able to maintain a fluent conversation in English or have a good knowledge of the language of the host country.
3. Have experience taking care of children
4. Not be married or have children
5. Have completed high school (high school or equivalent)
6. Be in good health
7. No criminal record
8. Want to spend one year living abroad
Video: The road to becoming an au pair
In the following video, we're looking at how you can use www.aupair.com to become an Au pair.Age
You need to be at least 17 years old and not older than 30 to apply for the program. Check out the specific age requirements for each country.Language requirements
You need to be able to communicate on a daily basis with your Host Family. If the host country’s requirements don't state otherwise, usually good command of English or the host country's official language is more than enough. The Au Pair program is for you to practice a foreign language, so don't worry if you are not fluent yet!
If you need a visa to participate in the Au Pair program, you might be required a language certificate proving your knowledge of the target language.
You are also allowed to improve your proficiency by attending a language course in the host country. In some countries, language courses are mandatory.
Family Status
In order to take part in the Au Pair program, you can't have children of your own. This is also a very important criteria to be entitled to the Au Pair visa. In many countries, you need to be unmarried as well.Education
You need to have at least a school diploma (depending on the country). Some Host Families might ask for additional certificates or documents proving your experience in childcare.Visa (if required)
You must fulfill the requirements of the host country's embassy to be entitled to the Au Pair visa. If you are interested in participating in the Au Pair USA program, check the requirements for the J-1 visa. Read also more information about the working holiday visa, which is issued to Au Pairs in several countries.Au Pair's expenses
You must be able to cover the travel expenses required to reach the host country and get back home, unless you have agreed with your future Host Family on different terms. Though we encourage Host Families to support their Au Pairs with travel costs, this is not a mandatory requirement and totally depends on the family’s decision.
Other requirements
You have to be healthy and not a smoker. Although smoking is not an official criteria, the chances to find a Host Family are much higher for non-smoking Au Pairs.
You also need to love spending time with kids. As the Au Pair duties are mainly related to childcare, this experience will be enjoyable for you only if you like taking care of children. Most Host Families expect their Au Pair to have some kind of experience in childcare. You might have done some babysitting or worked in a kindergarten or another social institution for a while. The more references you can show, the better you can convince a Host Family.
As an online matching agency we have gathered the most important information about the Au Pair experience in our Au Pair Wiki. Check also the specific requirements for each country and our Au Pair FAQ if you have other questions.
General requirements for Au Pairs from EU countries
| Target country | Age | Language | Education | Visa |
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| Australia | 18 - 30 years | Good command of English | No regulations | Depends on your nationality - for more details check visa regulations in Australia |
| Austria | 17 - 30 years | Basic german (with certificate) | No regulations | No visa needed |
| Belgium | 17 - 30 years | No regulations | No regulations | No visa needed |
| Canada | 18 - 30 years | Basic knowledge of English or French | No regulations | Depend on your nationality - for more details check visa regulations in Canada |
| China | 18 - 29 years | Good command of English | At least a school diploma | Depend on length of the stay - for more details check visa regulations in China |
| Denmark | 18 - 29 years | Knowledge of English, German, Swedish, Norwegian or Danish | Completed 8 - 9 years of schooling | No visa needed |
| England / UK | 17 - 30 years | Good command of English | No regulations | No visa needed |
| Finland | 17 - 30 years | Basic knowledge of Finnish or Swedish | At least school diploma | No visa needed |
| France | 17 - 30 years (or more: check Stagiaire program) | No regulations | At least high school diploma or equivalent | No visa needed |
| Germany | 18 - 26 years | Basic german (sometimes you will need at least an A1 certificate) | No regulations | No visa needed |
| Iceland | 18 - 27 years | Good knowledge of English | No regulations | No visa needed |
| Ireland | 18 - 28 years | Good knowledge of English | No regulations | No visa needed |
| Italy | 18 - 30 years | No regulations | No regulations | No visa needed |
| Luxembourg | 18 - 30 years | Good command of English or one of the three official languages of Luxembourg (Luxembourgish, German or French) | At least high school diploma | No visa needed |
| Netherlands | 18 - 25 years | No regulations | No regulations | No visa needed |
| New Zealand | 18 - 30 years | Good knowledge of English | No regulations | Check the visa regulations in New Zealand |
| Norway | 18 - 30 years | Good English or Norwegian skills | No regulations | No visa needed |
| Spain | 18 - 30 years | Basic knowledge of Spanish. Knowledge of English, French or German will also work | No regulations | No visa needed |
| Sweden | 18 - 30 years | No regulations - but Au Pair needs to prove interest in Swedish culture | No regulations | No visa needed |
| Switzerland | 17 - 30 years | Good knowledge of language of the canton for which you apply | No regulations | No visa needed |
| Turkey | 18 - 30 years | Good English or basic Turkish | No regulations | Check the visa regulations in Turkey |
| USA | 18 - 26 years | Good knowledge of English | At least high school diploma | J1 visa necessary - learn more about visa regulations in USA |
General requirements for Au Pairs from non-EU countries
| Target country | Age | Language | Education | Visa |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Australia | 18 - 30 years | Good command of English | No regulations | Depends on your nationality - for more details check visa regulations in Australia |
| Austria | 18 - 28 years | Basic german (with certificate) | No regulations | Check visa requirements in Austria |
| Belgium | 18 - 25 years | Basic knowledge of at least one of the three national languages: French, German or Dutch | High school diploma or document that grants higher education | Check visa requirements in Belgium |
| Canada | 18 - 30 years | Basic knowledge of English or French | No regulations | Depend on your nationality - for more details check visa regulations in Canada |
| China | 18 - 29 years | Good command of English | At least a school diploma | Depend on length of the stay - for more details check visa regulations in China |
| Denmark | 18 - 29 years | Knowledge of English, German, Swedish, Norwegian or Danish | Completed 8 - 9 years of schooling | Check visa regulations in Denmark |
| England / UK | 18 - 30 years | Good command of English | At least an intermediate school certificate | Check visa regulations in United Kingdom |
| Finland | 18 - 30 years | Basic knowledge of Finnish or Swedish | At least school diploma | Check visa regulations in Finland |
| France | 18 - 30 years (or more: check Stagiaire program) | Basic knowledge of French (certificate might be required) | At least high school diploma or equivalent | Check visa regulations in France |
| Germany | 18 - 26 years | Basic german (A1 certificate) | No regulations | Check visa regulations in Germany |
| Iceland | 18 - 25 years | Good knowledge of English (it is not an official requirement but recommendation) | No regulations | Check visa regulations in Iceland |
| Ireland | 18 - 27 years | Good knowledge of English | At least an intermediate school diploma | Check visa regulations in Ireland |
| Italy | 18 - 30 years | No regulations | No regulations | Check visa regulations in Italy |
| Luxembourg | 18 - 30 years | Good knowledge of English or one of Luxembourg’s official languages (Luxembourgish, German or French) | At least high school diploma | Check visa regulations in Luxembourg |
| Netherlands | 18 - 25 years | No regulations | No regulations | Check visa regulation in the Netherlands |
| New Zealand | 18 - 30 years | Good knowledge of English | No regulations | Check the visa regulations in New Zealand |
| Norway | 18 - 30 years | Good English or Norwegian skills | No regulations | Check the visa regulations in Norway |
| Spain | 18 - 30 years | Basic knowledge of Spanish. Knowledge of English, French or German will also work | At least an intermediate school certificate | Check the visa regulations in Spain |
| Sweden | 18 - 30 years | No regulations - but Au Pair needs to prove interest in Swedish culture | No regulations | Check visa regulations in Sweden |
| Switzerland | 18 - 25 years | Basic knowledge of the language spoken in the canton where you apply, but if you are a native in any of the three official languages of Switzerland, you cannot apply to work as an Au Pair in the region that speaks your mother tongue | At least intermediate school certificate | Check visa regulations to Switzerland |
| Turkey | 18 - 30 years | Good English or basic Turkish | No regulations | Check the visa regulations in Turkey |
| USA | 18 - 26 years | Good knowledge of English | At least high school diploma | J1 visa necessary - learn more about visa regulations in USA |
Free Registration as Candidate
- How can I contact a Host Family?
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You need to visit the Host Family’s profile and drop a message there. If the family is a Premium Member, they will be able to read your message and answer it in no time. You can also add a Host Family to your hotlist. The families will immediately get notified that you are interested! Please find more information here.
- Can you help me with the paperwork and the placement process?
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Unfortunately, we can’t help you with it. We are an online matching agency, thus we can’t interfere in your searching or placing process. We are happy to provide you with all our searching and matching tools and the information about the Au Pair experience. As our platform is available worldwide, we are unable to take care of all the applications we get daily. Feel free to use our service to visit your dream destination and find a great Host Family. We will be also glad to get your feedback! If you have any ideas or comments, get in touch with us.
- How long does it take to find a Host Family?
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It depends on several factors. Create your profile and make it attractive for other users. Check that you meet the Au Pair requirements set by the Au Pair program. Be active and contact 20-30 Host Families per day. While contacting the Host Families, make also sure that you fulfil the family’s expectations. Be active, open minded and try to convince families that the time spent with you will be a once-in-a-lifetime experience for their kids! Generally speaking, it takes from one week up to a few months to find a Host Family.
- Can I become an Au Pair?
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The Au Pair program accepts participants who meet mainly education, family and age requirements. Please take a look at the full list of Au Pair requirements. If you meet them, register as an Au Pair today and find a Host Family that matches your criteria.