Member ID 3565531

Nationality South-African | More ⇩

Full name Melody

City/State George/

Country South Africa

Start Dec 2025 - Jan 2026

Duration of stay 10-24 Months

Good knowledge of Afrikaans (Native), English (Native)

Last action 3 days ago

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Letter to the family

Dear potential host,

I hope this letter finds you well. My name is Melody, and I am writing to express my enthusiasm and strong interest in becoming an Au Pair or Caregiver for the elderly in your household. I am eager to contribute to the well-being of your family and the care of your loved one(s) with dedication, compassion, and responsibility. I believe that my passion for helping others, combined with my skills and experiences, makes me an excellent candidate for this role.

I have always had a deep respect for the elderly and a natural inclination toward caregiving. Growing up, I was fortunate enough to spend quality time with my grandparents, learning from their wisdom and understanding their unique needs. This experience sparked my interest in pursuing a role where I could offer support and companionship to elderly individuals, helping them maintain their dignity and independence.

The reason I want to become an Au Pair or Caregiver is rooted in my genuine desire to make a meaningful difference in someone’s life. I understand how important it is to have compassionate care when it comes to the elderly, and I want to be the person who offers both emotional and physical support. Additionally, I believe that spending time with seniors provides invaluable life lessons, and I would love to learn from their experiences while helping them with their daily needs.

I am confident that I would be a great fit for your family because I approach every task with empathy, patience, and a positive attitude. My previous experiences in childcare, elder care, and domestic assistance have equipped me with the skills to adapt quickly, manage responsibilities efficiently, and foster a warm and supportive environment. Granted, my experience with children have been significantly less than my experience with the elderly. I grew up in a tight-knit, traditional community where I had the privilege to spend lots of time with my family. It is important to mention that my family consists of 14 cousins, including myself. Being one of the older children in the family, I was usually tasked with taking care of the younger ones, when the need would arise. I absolutely loved it. In the more recent years, though, the only experience I had with children would be my youngest cousin and her friends, who are all 15 years old. I'd chaperone them to a movie or the beach or take them out for pizzas, seeing as I was the only adult with a car and enough free-time to indulge their whims.

My experience with the elderly is much more extensive, I feel. I currently live with my grandmother, who is 78 years old, and a great aunt, who is 85 and very frail. I help my gran with cleaning, cooking, buying the groceries and I join her each morning on her walks. I help my great aunt with the additional task of monitoring her oxygen machine.

In short, I am also comfortable with tasks such as meal preparation, personal care assistance, housekeeping, and helping with mobility. Moreover, I am dedicated to creating a safe and enjoyable space for everyone in the household, ensuring that your loved ones feel secure and valued.

I qualify for this position not only through my practical experience but also due to my personal attributes. I am highly responsible, mature, and eager to provide the best care possible. I am also flexible, understanding, and ready to work with any specific care plans you may have in place. I am happy to learn new skills or gain additional qualifications to better meet your family’s needs.

I truly believe that I would be an excellent addition to your household. I am excited at the prospect of becoming a part of your family and contributing to the care of your loved ones in a meaningful and supportive way.

Thank you for considering my application. I look forward to the possibility of discussing my candidacy further.

Warm regards,

Melody
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Experience

I accidently already elaborated on this in my motivational letter, so I will be using this space to fill in the blanks that my previous letter might have left.

As mentioned above, my primary experience is with family. I have have 5 younger cousins and, being one of the only older children in the family at the time who was still in high school and not at University, it was my responsibility to babysit them. The youngest is 15 years old now and although she doesn't need someone to stay with her at home when her parents are gone these days, she and I have become great friends and she knows to call me whenever she needs a grownup to go somewhere: the beach, the mall, et cetera.

My childcare experience in recent years are lacking, I understand that. I understand that this might be a red flag to the host family reading this letter, but I implore you to keep an open mind about me. I'm good with children. Each person I told about my plan to become an Au Pair thought I would be wonderful at it. If you give me an opportunity to prove this to you, you would be helping me with gaining much-needed experience.

My grandfather is a doctor, an internist, and my godmother is also a doctor, a pediatrician. I've been helping my grandfather for two years now with his admin. Through that experience and the experience of living with him and my grandmother all these years, I can confidently say that I am knowledgeable enough to help when your children are sick or need bandages because they fell off a bicycle. My godmother is also very passionate about her job and loves telling us about the interesting cases she works on. I know that listening to an aunt talk about healthcare and seeing how a doctor's practice works from the inside is vastly different from being a healthcare professional myself, so I am only mentioning my exposure to the medical field as a way of showing that I won't be squeamish around blood or vomit or wet beds. I know how to be professional and I can handle delicate matters without compromising somebody's self-worth.

My experience with elderly care is more intensive. I help look after a great aunt who is 85 years old and needs an oxygen tank. I help her to manage this. I am also in charge of preparing meals for her and my grandmother, running any errands, buying groceries, cleaning the house, doing laundry, taking them on outings, and helping them maintain their independency wherever possible.

In 2023 I took time to stay full-time at home to care for my grandmother, who had had a very serious spinal surgery which had left her bedridden for roughly 5 months. In this time, I was the one who changed her bandages and took her for her check-ins. I helped her bathe and dress and I did any and all tasks that she could no longer manage by herself. She is now completely healed and we take walks in the morning together.

In 2024 my great aunt had a heart attack and I was the one who called the ambulance and accompanied her to the hospital. She survived, thankfully.

I am uncertain if this experience with the elderly is enough to officially qualify me for a caregiving job, so I did some research and found a caregiver course that I will be willing to attend in October 202: "Survival CPR, First Aid and Caregiver Courses."

In all honesty, I hope that this letter is reason enough to consider me as an Au Pair for your children or a Caregiver for your loved one. I love children and how they remind me that the world is wonderful and I love older people and how they remind me that each of us have a story that we carry with us.

I want to help people. I want to do my part in bringing joy into the world.
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Personal information

Non-SmokerHas attended a first-aid training - Yes
Can swim well - Yes
Can ride a bike - Yes
Has a driver's license - Yes, with experience

Can swim well

Can ride a bike

Has a driver's license Yes, with experience

Has siblings

Has a valid passport

Non-Smoker

Has attended a first-aid training

Profession Caregiver

Education University

Language Knowledge

Afrikaans: Native Language, Since 13 Year/s
English: Native Language, Since 13 Year/s

Sports  I go on daily walks and do weight training at the gym.

Religion Christian

For the Au Pair religion is Important

Special diet considerations No special diet

Has health problems No

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Job information

Can work more for extra money - Yes
Can care for special needs children - Yes
Does accept family with pets - Yes
Can take care of pets - Yes

Preferred countries Belgium, Netherlands, Russian Federation, Sweden & Switzerland

Preferred area Big City, Suburb, Town, Village, Countryside

Duration of stay 10-24 Months

Earliest starting date Dec 2025

Latest starting date Jan 2026

Does accept family with pets

Can work more for extra money

Can take care of pets

Age group 1 - 5 years old, 6 - 10 years old, 11 - 14 years old, 15+ years old

Hours of child care experience in the past 24 months 10 - 50

Would like to take care of this number of children/people 3

Would work for a single parent? Yes, with any of them

Can care for special needs children

Can care for special needs people

To students of age group

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